THE MEN TODAY CARE TOO MUCH ABOUT WOMEN.
You care too much about the woman that you don’t even have yet. You care too much about the women who have no intention of ever being yours. And, yes, you care too much about the woman who allegedly is your woman today.
Men have become their woman’s man. Your are your wife’s husband. You are your girlfriend’s boyfriend.
You have invested too much in your identity as women’s partners.
Too much of your esteem is riding on your success and failure with women — I won’t even say with ‘your women’, because most of the women that I see men agonizing over are not even ‘their women’. They are just women who happened to be in the man’s vicinity. Perhaps a woman who has offered the man some non-exclusive physical intimacy.
Men are selling themselves too cheap to women.
All that has happened as a result of this on women’s part is that women seem to be valuing men and all that masculinity brings less and less. Women’s regard for the masculine is hovering just around ‘CONTEMPT’! The most common response form the feminine towards the masculine these days is an eye roll!
Men have become ridiculous to women! Husbands are ridiculous husbands! Boyfriends are ridiculous boyfriends! And men who are overly invested in women who are not invested back in them are just outright ridiculous chumps and simps.
If only, only, only your simping was being rewarded by women!
Ohh…if only on the night of the Oscars Jeda Picket-Smith had got down on her knees in love and devotion in front of Will Smith to express to him how loved, cherished and honored she felt that he put his reputation, his career, his future on the line to defend her honor. Ohh, if only…. I would concede my point here and now if you show me that picture of Jeda on her knees in front of her Man, her Knight, her Husband — on her knees in love and devotion…exclusive devotion towards HER MAN!
Someone, anyone, please show me how well the men of the world today are being rewarded by the feminine for ridiculously over-investing and over-emoting towards women?
I think the deal with the Devil that the collective feminine made was this: You wanted to be able to buy men cheaper. The devil granted you your wish, but he was smirking when he shook your hand. The men today are cheaper — but only because the men themselves have became cheaper — faded, incomplete, shadowy — — pathetic versions of their prior glory.
Masculinity today is a cheap throwaway. It is so watered down and adulterated and off the mark that it is a bottle of piss masquerading as a Skye Single Malt.
What the masculine is longing for more and more with each passing moment and gasping breath in this world is : TO BE ADORED BY THE FEMININE!
But the way the modern man is comporting himself, the feminine is at polar opposite end of feeling adoration towards the masculine.
Making men cheaper to buy has not worked out too well for either party.
It’s a bad look on men, and it’s truly a hell for women. No wonder all of you are so fucking miserable these days. This here might be the core-core reason behind why all you women are so abjectly unhappy these days — — THE CHEAP MAN! The worthless man! The confused boy-child of a man.
We might be better off if we just halted this man-woman game for a while. Let’s return to our corners. Men — don’t come out of your corner till you are worth a whole lot more than you are today. Don’t come out of your corner till you know your worth. Don’t come out of the corner till you know that you would rather be alone than be with a woman who is not willing to pay your worth.
And women….don’t come out of your corner till these men have come out of their corners. And then, be ready to pay through your nose to have such men in your lives.
Don’t expect them to go out there and defend your honor when you yourself posses no honor to defend.
Don’t expect them to be chumps and simps.
Don’t expect that you will be able to bamboozle them and confuse them with your sex.
— — Om Rupani